As a leadership coach deeply embedded in the automotive industry, I’ve come to understand that the soft skills—communication, delegation, and time management—are the real drivers behind successful shops. It’s not just about operations or fixing cars; it’s about leading people well.
We often hear shop owners say, “We don’t have time.” But my respectful challenge to that is: Are you truly out of time, or are you not making time? Because the reality is, we always make time for our priorities. If everything feels urgent and all things are “priorities,” then nothing truly is.
So how do we prioritize time effectively? How do we cast a clear vision that your team can rally behind, helping everyone drive the mission forward? These are the exact challenges I work through with shops every day.
One of the biggest hidden killers of productivity and morale is poor communication. I see this all the time, and it’s a subtle problem that creates massive consequences in any business.
For example, imagine a service manager who goes to the shop floor and asks an advisor, “What’s the status of this Ford F-150?” The advisor gives a quick, surface-level answer, and the manager immediately responds with a directive — “Don’t forget to do X, Y, or Z” — and then walks away.
Is this clarity? No.
That’s directive, but not direction.
Direction requires trust, safety, and encouragement to explore deeper.
As leaders, we can create that clarity by using simple, powerful coaching questions. For instance:
This small but mighty phrase — “And what else?” — is possibly the most powerful question a leader can ask. Every time I’ve used it (thousands of times), there’s always something else that surfaces. It invites critical thinking, problem-solving, and ownership from your team, rather than just accepting surface-level responses.
Words matter — a lot. The phrase “Can I be honest with you?” can sometimes backfire. If you already say “Can I be honest with you?” it can feel like you weren’t honest before.
Instead, I encourage advisors to “share” information, not “tell” it. Sharing implies collaboration and respect, not one-way communication.
Also, your body language, especially your hand gestures, speaks volumes.
I once heard advice from a mentor: watch comedians to learn how they use stage presence and hand gestures to keep audiences engaged. Animated, open hand gestures build trust and connection.
Avoid finger-pointing or closed, tight gestures—they can unintentionally make people feel defensive or dismissed.
Even the simple difference between “but” and “and” can shift a conversation’s tone from negative to positive.
Accountability is often the missing link in shops.
One way to build it is through Calls to Action (CTA) in every one-on-one meeting.
One-on-ones aren’t just status updates — they’re spaces for your team’s voice to be heard, ideas to be shared, and development to happen.
At the end of each one-on-one, set a specific call to action:
Follow-up is where most leaders fail.
Two days after the meeting, check in:
“Hey, just reminding you about your call to action on X. What can I do to help you move forward?”
This isn’t micromanaging—it’s supportive accountability, especially important when establishing new habits and a culture of ownership.
Over time, this consistent follow-up will build responsibility and initiative across your team.
Effective onboarding and training are essential for long-term success.
I teach the MAWL training method — Model, Assist, Watch, Launch — to guide new hires through their roles intentionally:
This method typically takes about a month but builds true competence and confidence.
Hiring coachable, intelligent team members with the right attitude (CIA) dramatically improves retention and success.
When you get the right people on the bus, onboard them well, train them properly, and coach them consistently — they want to stay, grow, and contribute for the long haul.
Yes, sometimes a well-trained person leaves. But with the right culture, that’s rare — and the investment pays off many times over.
If you want to dive deeper into leadership, here are two classic books that have shaped my approach:
Both remain relevant decades later and are excellent starting points for anyone looking to grow as a leader.
Great leadership isn’t about being the hero on stage — it’s about connecting authentically, serving others, and fostering growth.
From your choice of words and body language to creating space for accountability and practicing intentional training, leadership is a daily practice, not a one-time act.
If you want to learn more about leadership coaching tailored to the automotive industry, you can find me at limitlessleadership.co or on social media @TheBeardedLeader.